This verse has come alive to me tonight. I have been wrestling with several things lately, all combined have stirred up inner conflict that is beginning to spill over. It is evident in my thoughts toward my friends, it is coming out in negative words of complaint to my husband, and it is causing me to want to run from several relationships that I have no idea what to do with. I do not like conflict. But tonight these words came gently to me in a way that gave me a new perspective. Instead of continuing to think over all of these things, trying to come up with solutions, or just running around with every possible scenario that could ever happen, I must turn my attention to God. Period. Fixing our thoughts on Him means not allowing our minds to be in charge. We must actively choose to think differently about those situations that are upsetting to us. Did she say something that you took to be rude? Was he not listening to you and assumed you were talking about one thing when you meant something entirely different? What about that slow driver in front of you? Maybe they are distracted by thinking about a serious medical issue in their family. Oh the list goes on and on. For me it has been several different issues with multiple people. By changing my thought pattern I can see things in a new light. I am able to give grace and offer forgiveness. I am more understanding and patient. I can think things through more clearly instead of being driven by fearful thoughts. Tonight pray for God to change your perspective to think on things the way He wants you to.